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Find out about Conwy Breastfeeders Peer Supporters 7th March 2012

February 22nd, 2012

Conwy Breastfeeding Friends Peer Supporters have been nominated for the Pride Of Conwy Award and have decided to open their doors to those wanting further information about training to become a Peer Supporter.

Have you ever thought you’d like to help other mothers?  Have you breastfed your children for a 6 months or longer?  If so then come along to Princes Drive Baptist Church, Colwyn Bay, LL29 8LA on the Wednesday 7th March, from 10am-12pm.

You can ask questions about the training and what’s involved.  You can also find out about becoming a Breastfeeding Councillor too.  If you would like some Peer Support yourself, then you are welcome too.

There will be some filming for our awards clip but that won’t take up much time.  Tea and coffee will be available and some friendly faces and children are always welcome.

 

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Real Nappy Week – 20% off and free UK delivery at Petit Guili

Real Nappies at Petit GuiliPetit Guili are specialists in cloth nappies, baby carriers, organic baby toiletries, wooden toys, BPA free bottles and complementary eco-friendly products for your baby.

They  are a small family business with a passion for Organic products and their policy is to sell quality products without chemicals, and other toxic substances.

Petit Guili help keep Lactivist.net running by sponsoring an advert on the site – so please make it worth their while and look at their beautifully stylish website – there is lots of stuff on there that you don’t see in many Eco – friendly baby shops so if you are looking for exclusive goodies with quality that you know won’t literally cost the earth Petit Guili is the place.

To celebrate Real Nappy Week 2011 Petit Guili are offering 20% off on all orders- (until the end of real nappy week) + free UK delivery code NAPPY

Back to Basics

Imagine if – just for a day – you couldn’t wash the dishes, take a shower, water the house plants, wash your hands/ teeth or use the washing machine.   These are just a few of the things we take for granted in our privileged part of the world.   We have safe, mains water piped to our homes.   It comes on with the flick of a switch or the turn of a tap.   We look on with pity at the TV pictures of those less fortunate than ourselves, the women queueing for water at a pump and washing their clothes in rivers.   We remind ourselves that we are fortunate because in the Western World this is not something we have to deal with:

 

 

The dangers are obvious. UNICEF says:

‘Unsafe drinking water, along with poor sanitation and hygiene, are the main contributors to an estimated 4 billion cases of diarrhoeal disease annually, causing more than 2.2 million deaths worldwide.  Of these, some 1.5 million occur in children under five.’

Apart from the other risks associated with formula feeding of infants, it is an accepted fact (even amongst those who use formula) that the risks of powdered formula milk is increased hugely when the water supply is poor.  I have often heard people (including my own relatives) say

‘formula is fine, it’s only a problem in the Third World where they don’t have clean water’.

But we don’t live in the Third World though, do we?  

So that’s ok then….  

Unless – like me, you live in the ‘developed world’ and still don’t have a clean water supply. 

I haven’t had water in my home since 26th December.   My neighbours haven’t had it since the 22nd.   You might think ‘sure that’s no big deal, brush your teeth with bottled water and fill up at your neighbours house’.   Yup – that’s what I thought too.   Thing is, my neighbours are off, my family too, and the shops have sold out of bottled water.   I can no longer get through to the water board and their website is down.   We were promised a delivery of ‘emergency water’ on the 27th, but of course nothing arrived.   The last time I spoke to someone from the Northern Ireland Water Board their advice was to collect snow and rainwater. 



This is a photo of every pot and pan I own filled with water.  That was before it went off.  My husband thought I was mad.

I have no idea when it will be fixed.   Not only have the mains pipes burst due to extreme weather here over the past couple of weeks, but when that happened somehow local reservoirs also ended up being drained.   Unlike years ago, our town no longer has a functioning well (of course not, that’s positively primitive isn’t it?) – so we literally have nowhere to turn.   To be honest it’s a total nightmare, and not for the first time I thought about the realities of trying to formula feed a young baby in such a situation.

You think it can’t happen to you don’t you?

You’re wrong.

 ’About 80% of the world’s population lives in areas where the fresh water supply is not secure, according to a new global analysis. Researchers compiled a composite index of “water threats” that includes issues such as scarcity and pollution.’ 

 

 

The chances are, that if you’re reading this blog, you probably live in one of the ‘high stress’ areas of this map.   I confess this map shocked me but like many things I was able to push it out of my mind when I first saw it…   However, nothing brings the realities of water stress home to you more than wondering how you’re going to cope without water for an unspecified amount of time.

My daughter is two years old, and so far she has been able to have water from a safe source throughout this ‘wet drought’.   I am very lucky!   I could boil rainwater for her and make it ‘safe’, but I don’t know exactly what chemicals that rainwater will contain.

‘Fine particles or soot, a large fraction of which are formed from the same gases as acid rain (sulfur dioxide and nitrogen dioxide), have been shown to cause premature deaths and illnesses such as cancer and other diseases’ ~ http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Acid_rain

 If I were formula feeding a young baby, quite frankly I’d be very worried.   Not only have the supermarkets here sold out of bottled water – they’re also very low on pre-made formula.   Even when they do have some left, it isn’t going to necessarily be the right brand, and babies react differently to different brands…

It’s just a minefield. It’s not something many mums consider when they’re struggling with breastfeeding, but I can’t help but wonder how many new mums here in Northern Ireland are struggling to sterilise and make up clean bottles for their babies?

Was it even a consideration for anyone when they took the decision to stop?

I KNOW it’s not easy to breastfeed sometimes, and good support and advice is so often not there when people need it – but global warming is a reality.

We may well face increasing strain on our vital water supply.   We can no longer look out of our ivory towers and down our noses at the third world where formula feeding is more dangerous, since we are facing the same problems. I can’t help but feel that we, in the west, have become complacent.   We have no idea how to treat our planet and we think we’re invincible.   The truth is, it only takes a few days of sub-zero temperatures to leave thousands of homes without water in the UK.   I would put money on it happening again too.

Personally, I’d like to see a few more of these:

 

I have lots of empty bottles and buckets here as well as a wheelbarrow to put them all in.   I just have nowhere to fill them up.   Once I finish this post I’ll ring my sister to see if she had any luck getting water out of my cousin’s well.   It’s located in the yard of an C18th farmhouse and it was dug long before anyone took our natural resources for granted.….   Back then everyone breastfed, they grew their own food, made their own clothes and were self-sufficient.   We have lost all of this resourcefulness.  

I am, however, seriously considering buying a wood-burning stove with a couple of hot plates on the top before next winter.   We seriously need to rethink our priorities and get some balance back into our way of living.

The biggest irony in all of this?   My wifi is working perfectly.   The phrase ‘fur coat and no knickers’ springs to mind!

*ETA – my water supply was restored after 72 hours.  How fantastic it was to fill up the dishwasher and press the button…..!  How fortunate are we?   However, I am aware that elsewhere in the province, thousands STILL DO NOT have any clean water!   This is a link to a news item broadcast two days ago which I shared with members on our Facebook group.   I think it shows clearly how serious the situation is for many formula feeding families in this part of the world.   Northern Ireland has the lowest breastfeeding rates in the UK by a considerable margin.   I wonder how many mums wished during this crisis that they were still able to breastfeed?  

Most of all, I will be very interested to see if - during this time of water-poverty - breastfeeding rates go up here in Northern Ireland, however temporarily.

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Piece originally published on ‘Dispelling Breastfeeding Myths’ – 28th December 2010

Bargain Cloth Nappies from Twinkle on the Web

http://www.twinkleontheweb.co.uk/acatalog/details-33ECOKIT.html

This is what the website says:

“We’ve designed this nappy bucket to be a credit crunching money saver all round. The economical price comfortably allows your purchase to be sufficient for the majority of local council real nappy schemes yet has all you need to get started with full time cloth nappy use, giving you instant savings for little more than the cost of just one month’s disposable nappies and wipes.

The kit includes 3 packs of 6 prefold nappies, giving 18 nappies in total, plus 4 white Prorap wraps of a suitable size to fit your baby and a pack of 100 nappy liners, all packed in a free nappy bucket.

To complete the kit we’ve thown in a free nappy mesh to minimise handling – simply lift out of your bucket and pop in your machine, a Nappi Nippa to fasten your nappies, and our How to Nappy booklet with full instructions.

We’ve also included a pack of washable wipes – simply use with water and wash with your nappies. These wipes may also be added to the nappies as boosters to give extra absorbency.

We’ve Eco Nappy Buckits to suit newborn to toddler.

The Newborn kit has our slim prefolds – these are 6 layers thick in the centre panel and 4 at the sides – less bulky but also less absorbent than our Small, which has 4x8x4 thickness.

Regular and Toddler kits are supplied with 4x8x4 thickness prefolds.You can often extend the life of your kits by buying extra wraps in the next size up – eg a set of Small wraps could extend the Newborn kit to around 15lb (6.3kg), a set of XL wraps could extend the Toddler EcoBuckit to around 40lb(20kg).

Both the prefolds and the Proraps are manufactured to a very high quality and are designed to sustain commercial nappy laundry service washing standards.

Newborn Eco Buckit £50.00 To fit birth to approx 10lb (4.5kg).

Small Eco Buckit £55.00 To fit approx 8-14lb (3.6-6.3kg),

Regular Eco Buckit £65.00 To fit approx 15lb-25lb (6kg-11kg)

Toddler Eco Buckit £70 To fit approx 25lb-35lb(11-16kg)”

The Bundle Jungle – Parenting Forum

www.thebundlejungle.co.uk

My name is Elle and I have a nearly 6 month old daughter. From the moment she was born I found myself parenting her in a way that was different to the “mainstream” parenting styles and I’ve faced a lot of criticism for my choices. Though it has all come naturally to me and it has worked so well for my daughter it has not been without a lot of self doubt and difficulty. Going against the grain is never easy, especially where parenting is concerned.

I created the forum as a lifeline for parents in a similar situation and also for anyone interested in baby led parenting. We’re very focussed as a community on supporting our members and a great feature of the forum is our Guru system in which more experienced parents advise and support others in aspects of parenting such as breastfeeding, cloth nappies and baby led weaning.

The Bundle Jungle is friendly and welcoming to those trying to conceive, pregnant women, fathers to be and parents from all walks of life. What makes our forum different to other mainstream pregnancy and parenting forums is, not only our focus on community support but, also our interest in challenging the way we look at parenting. We currently have an internal wiki (Bundle Wiki) which is available for members to create articles on anything they like, with the aim of creating a knowledge base that members and guests can access at any time to learn more about all aspects of the conception-pregnancy-parenting journey and much, much more.

Another fantastic feature, coming soon to the forum, is the addition of an internal blog (Bundle Blog). This will allow members to write about and document all aspects of their journey from that first positive test, to scan pictures, baby’s first kick, labour, birth, parenthood and everything in between. Members will be able to follow each other and comment, making the journey a shared one.

The most important thing to us is a happy, supported memberbase.

Signing up is free and we frequently run giveaways as our way of giving back to the community. So, do come and say hello, whether you wish to share your knowledge in our wiki, get advise and support or just have a chatter, The Bundle Jungle has something for everyone.

Only one box of £3 Pro cloth nappy bargain t-shirts left at Lactivist

I am now sold out of size 1-2 years and have a limited supply of 0-6 months in pink and blue and a slightly bigger stock of 6-12 months left in loads of different colours.  They are unlikely to be this price ever again so get them while you can!

http://www.lactivist.co.uk/index.php?cPath=97

Real Nappy Week £3 Lactivist T-shirt Bargains!

I nearly forgot Real Nappy Week!

If you are fast you can catch the ‘Not all Nappies are Rubbish, Cloth Nappies go on and on’ t-shirt at www.lactivist.co.uk for a very silly £3. Usually it is £9.99 so get it quick before I change my mind about making a loss on them :-)

They are in the Bargain of the Week section

Survey about immunisations

http://www.decidestudy.co.uk/

Parents of children in the first three years of primary school (Reception, Year 1 and Year 2) will be invited to take part in this study via online groups and a number of schools. We need 250 parents, from across the UK and Republic of Ireland, to participate.

Taking part in this study just involves completing this online survey, which will take about 15 minutes.

The survey asks questions about a hypothetical (not real) illness and vaccine. It also asks questions about you and your family, and your real-life immunisation views and behaviour.

You may feel some questions are quite personal – for example, we ask about ethnicity and income – but you are free to leave these questions blank if you wish.

You can speak to a researcher about the study before you complete the survey if you would like.

On the last page of the survey you can enter a prize draw to win a voucher (£100, £50, £25) for a shop of your choice. You can also receive results from the study.

Calling all babywearing dads!

baby sling dad

baby sling dad

I have to admit I have a soft spot for baby sling dads. Seeing their little ones snuggled up on their chest or proudly perched on their baby melt my heart. Apparently I’m not the only one, my friend Alan used to call his sling his ‘babe magnet’.

Calin Bleu is calling all babywearing dads. Send them your baby wearing stories, the high and lows of living the life of a baby sling dad. Why do you love carrying your baby? What decided you to use a baby sling? What do you do when you’re together? Do you feel it allows you to build a special connection with your little one or is it just the convenience….

Your words will help other dads who are thinking about getting a baby sling. Photos would be great too. Any sling, anywhere!

3 entries will drawn at random to win a baby sling. The winners will be able to choose among the fleece baby slings and the cotton baby slings. Competition closes at midnight on June 25th, hurry! Spread the word and tell your friends too.

What do you plan to do with your placenta?

With my first birth, I don’t think I even noticed the placenta. With the second, I was determined to pay more Placenta art kitattention to this wonderful organ that nourished J for 9 months, so asked to keep it. It is still in the freezer, having come with us when we moved house. I think we may make it part of the foundations of our new extension. With the next baby, though, not only do I want to see the placenta, I’d also like to have something prepared to do with it. Some people plant a tree on top to commemorate the child’s birth, or you could send off for one of these placenta art kits.

Cloth Nappy Guide by Gary Lamont

So, you’re thinking about nappies? Not everyone’s favourite aspect of parenting, but they’re a pretty much essential part of having a baby. This is why I have posted this short guide here to help you learn more. I being me, Gary Lamont, Real Nappy Network Co-ordinator for the Wiltshire Wildlife Trust, have written this information about the benefits of real nappies, as well as the realities of using washable nappies at home, so you’ll be able to make an informed decision about what is right for you, your baby, lifestyle &our environment.

Real nappies have come a long way from meaning complicated folding, pins, scratchy plastic pants, boiling, soaking and hours of extra work. Like almost everything else in modern life, things have
changed in the washable nappy world over the last 30 years. Cloth nappies:

• Save up to £1200 per bum by washing real nappies at home
• Soft, natural fibres against delicate skin
• Potty training up to 6 months earlier
• No nasty chemical content & no animal testing
• Use less energy & water, even including the washing
• Save over a tonne of waste going to landfill sites
• No more struggling with bulky packs from the shops!

Real nappies are also called washable nappies, cloth nappies, cotton nappies, and even old-fashioned terry nappies. For all these different names, they are basically the same idea: a nappy you wash & use again, rather than put in the bin, like a disposable or single use nappy.
There are literally 100s of different styles & designs to choose from, and real nappies are fast becoming not just an eco-friendly choice, but a fashionable lifestyle choice, with greater choice to show off your wee one’s style from their earliest days!

That’s WHY more & more people choose real nappies, next you’ll want to know: HOW?
Well, while real nappies are not quite as self-explanatory as single use nappies, there isn’t all that much to it. Just think about what you need a nappy to do, and the 3 basic ‘bits’ that make up a real nappy system make perfect sense – it’s as easy as 1, 2, 3 …
1. A LINER catches the poo, so it can be flushed easily.
2. A NAPPY is the cotton bit that absorbs the wetness.
3. A WRAP (or cover, or pants) is the waterproof layer that protects clothes.

Changing real nappies is just as simple as changing single use nappies, you just throw the nappy in a bucket, rather than in the bin – and no need to tie the nappy in a little bag to stop the house smelling of poo, because that bit gets flushed away! No need for boiling or soaking, just chuck the used nappy in a dry bucket and add them to any whites wash. If you line your bucket with a net laundry bag (or old pillow case!), then you throw the open bag straight into the washing machine without even touching the nappies. Simple.
A normal 60 degree wash cleans & sterilizes your nappies, so no need for harsh chemicals, messy soaking or energy-draining boil washes.

Now you know the basics, you need to know how to get started using real nappies, but it can help to actually see the nappies for yourself which is where I come in. To encourage more families to use cloth nappies in Wiltshire, the Wiltshire Wildlife Trust has a scheme which provides a co-ordinator i.e. me, to give free and independent information, trial kits for parents to borrow and try out the various nappies on offer, a money back voucher to assist with initial costs (up to £30 refund) and I help organize local events and demonstrations with opportunities to meet other Real Nappy users.

I thought it may be beneficial at this stage to outline some questions which are regularly asked of me which hopefully you will find useful.

What about Nappy Rash?
The incidence of nappy rash has massively increased since disposables were introduced to the market place. The most important thing to prevent nappy rash is keeping your baby’s bottom clean, not just feeling dry. It’s really easy to know when a real nappy needs to be changed, not so easy for a disposable that always feels dry, and changing your baby as soon as possible is the key to avoiding nappy rash. Many of the real nappy parents I know saw hardly any nappy rash, and only then when their babies were ill or teething. Nappies made from natural fibres, with a breathable wrap over the top allow much more air to circulate, keeping skin cooler and less irritated than a combination of paper pulp, chemicals and a non-breathable plastic layer.

What about comfort?
Would you choose chemically treated paper pants over natural cotton ones? Would your baby? Real nappies are soft and comfortable, let skin breath and reduce the possibility of irritation from added chemicals. Babies have been in real nappies for hundreds of years, without all the modern styles of nappies, with no problems at all. It’s only adverts for disposables that make us think that they must be more comfortable, common sense tells us otherwise!
Again, adverts for disposables would have us believe that no baby ever learnt to walk before the new, hyper-slim-fitting disposables were invented, and we all know that’s rubbish, literally. While some real nappies may look a little bulky at first, it’s just a matter of what you are used to, and of course a nice soft, comfy cotton nappy gives lots of padding when the little ones land on it when they’re learning to walk.
What about hygiene?
What’s hygienic about putting poo in the bin? Human waste belongs in the sewer
system, where it can be properly treated, and not in a landfill site where it can leach out pathogens, viruses and emits methane, a powerful greenhouse gas. If soiled nappies are washed at 60 degrees, then real nappies are far more hygienic than putting poo in a bin. With any kind of nappy, store used ones sensibly, and out of reach of toddlers.
What about childcare?
A lot of people worry about what their child-carer will say about real nappies. No
registered child-care provider should have a problem with using real nappies. After all, you are paying them to care for your child, and if they have a problem with your choice of nappies, what else might you disagree on? Some child-carers need just a little bit of advice and support, and they will be changing real nappies along with the best!
What about going out?
Going out & about with just real nappies for the first time can be a bit daunting,
particularly if you’ve used disposables before, but it’s really not a problem. All you need is a waterproof bag to store the nappies in until you get home, when you can throw them in the bucket. For days at nursery or overnight stays you’ll want a bigger bag, or a couple of smaller ones. If you’re using flat nappies, it can be handy to have a couple folded & ready to put on in your nappy bag. If your nappy arsenal includes any shaped or fitted nappies, when you’re trying to balance your baby on one of those teeny public changing stations, they can come in handy.
Changing real nappies, like every bit of being a parent, comes with practice, none of us are experts to start with, but it doesn’t take long to be winning nappy-change races against those who haven’t cottoned on to real nappies yet!
What about nights?
Those pesky ads again! Babies have been sleeping through the night for generations before sodium-polyacrylate was invented (that the nasty gel which absorbs all the wee & can absorb vital moisture from delicate skin). There are millions of parents around the world who get a good night’s sleep with a baby in real nappies! Disposable nappies don’t make babies more intelligent, sleep better or for longer, eat better, or able to do somersaults at the age of 2, that’s all just marketing designed to get parents to spend £100s on rubbish, literally.
When using real nappies at night time, an extra booster to add absorbency can help. And fleece liners keep babies feeling dry, which isn’t important unless that is what your baby is used to, so if you’re switching from disposables, they might help.
What about breastfeeding?
Breastfeeding is best for you and your baby, and the benefits increase the longer you are able to breastfeed for. There is lots of help and support available in all areas of the UK (and Wiltshire), so ask your midwife or health visitor for more information on local support groups & advice.
Breastfeeding is only a nappy-issue for the first months, before introducing solid food. Because breast milk is exactly what your baby needs, so much of it is digested that the resulting poo can be quite runny, so you’ll want to think about what nappy system will hold it in. Any nappy, flat or fitted, made from terry material will hold on to the poo best, the bigger the loop, the better the poo-handling. Get in touch for more advice.
What about potty training?
Children today are potty training 6-12 months later than they did 50 years ago, and many parents using cloth nappies see their children potty trained by 2 years. Cloth nappies allow babies to feel when they are going to the toilet, and so they do not have to learn a whole new set of sensations when training. Choosing wraps or nappies which close with poppers for this size can help, as they can be pulled up & down like pants.

I hope that you will find this short guide useful. If you would like more information then please do call me on 01380 725670 ext.236 and I will help in any way I can.
Thankyou for taking the time to read this and Happy Nappying
Gary Lamont
Real Nappy Network Co-ordinator
Wiltshire Wildlife Trust
T: 01380 725670 ext.236
E: GaryL@wiltshirewildlife.org
W: www.wiltshirewildlife.org

Create Less Waste by Antonia Chitty

If you gaze in despair at the bin bags building up outside your house each week, Antonia Chitty has some tips for you.

In just one hour the UK produces enough rubbish to fill Albert Hall. Incineration and landfill cause pollution, so look at ways you can reduce the amount of waste the family produces, reuse things and recycle. There’s also pressure from councils for people to cut down the amount of rubbish they produce nowadays.

For young families, nappies are one of the biggest sources of rubbish – why not find out about cloth nappies. You can opt to wash them yourself or choose a nappy laundry service. Modern cloth nappies come in a wide range of shapes and are easy to use.

Try to buy fruit and veg loose – they can work out cheaper this way too, and you don’t get so much unnecessary packaging. If you find trips to the supermarket a hassle, try to keep space in the freezer for staples like bread and milk. By doing one big shop and freezing some things you can cut the number of trips you need to make which will save time, money and petrol.

Some supermarkets will now recycle plastic bags if you return them, but it is even better to reduce the number of bags you use. If you used string bags instead of 12 carrier bags a week, you’d reduce carbon dioxide emissions from manufacturing the bags by 600kg per year – the same amount as a car releases when it’s used for four weeks.

Another way to reduce packaging is to buy large packs of crisps, instead of small individual packets inside a multipack – it’s quick and easy to put some in a reusable plastic box for the kids lunches.

You can have fun with the children preparing for pack lunches. At the weekend, why not have a ‘baking hour’ when you and the kids make some cakes or biscuits to go in their lunchboxes throughout the week. It’s cheaper than buying biscuits, and you’ll cut down on the amount of rubbish going in the bin.

If you find you are using lots of kitchen foil or baking parchment, buy a reusable baking sheet. They can be used to line the grill or a cake tin, and then washed and used again time after time.

Moving from kitchen to garden, composting is another way to cut down on the amount of waste that goes in the bin; many local councils now offer cheap compost bins. Have a lidded bucket in the kitchen and slip in fruit and veg peelings, then empty them into a compost bin in the garden every few days. Layer grass clippings, kitchen waste and even old newspapers and cardboard. You may need to water the compost slightly if it seems dry.

Waste paper is a significant part of the landfill problem: the amount of waste paper buried each year would fill 103,448 double decker buses. To reduce the amount of paper that gets thrown away, reuse envelopes by adding reuse stickers. Get the kids to use the back of old letters for drawing paper too. A forest the size of Wales is cut down each year to supply the paper to feed the UK’s junk mail habit. Write to the mailing preference service Mailing Preference Service www.dma.org.uk, which will stop 95% of the junk mail you currently receive.

Although the recycling process uses energy and water, it usually isn’t as much as making a product from scratch. Recycling also cuts down on raw materials having to be extracted from the earth’s resources. In the UK we recycle about 25% of the paper we use, compared with around 60% for the best country in Europe. If the UK recycled 60% of the paper used in 1997, 8 million fewer trees would be cut down each year. There’s only so much point in recycling if nobody buys recycled products. It can cost more, but the price will come down as demand increases.

Newspapers, magazines, glass bottles, cans and textiles can be recycled. Plastic is used as packaging because it is so light and cheap. But, because there are hundreds of different types, it is often difficult to recycle. If you can’t recycle it at a place near you, the try and buy less of it – not an easy task but it can make a difference. Even spectacles can be reused. Many optometrists collect spectacles for Vision Aid Overseas (VAO) – a charity that sorts old spectacles then sends them out to be used in developing countries.

According to a recent survey, of the 40 million mobile phones that have been sold in the UK, only 20 million are in use. So where are they all? Some are gathering dust in drawers but others are being thrown away and end up in landfill sites. Not only is this a waste but also very polluting as the phones contain a cocktail of toxic materials. A number of charities recycle unwanted mobiles and their accessories, as well as inkjet and laser cartridges from printers. Computer Aid International refurbishes old pcs and redistributes them in the third world. www.computeraid.org

We fill about 300 million square metres of land with rubbish every year, that’s the same as covering the pitch at Old Trafford, Manchester United Football Club’s ground, 28,450 times. So, this year, will you start composting, or take your own bags to the supermarket? What ever you do, you’ll know it will make this planet a better place for the kids to grow up.

Antonia Chitty is an experienced and versatile communications specialist.
She has published articles in a range of consumer and trade titles, and runs
a PR agency for small and creative businesses. www.acpr.co.uk

Greener ways to go by Antonia Chitty

Antonia Chitty looks at healthier ways to travel, save energy and cut your bills.

If you’re keen to be greener, look into alternative ways to travel. For shortish trips you can’t beat just putting one foot in front of the other. Short journeys, before the car is warmed up, cause the most pollution. Walking is great exercise and the most environmentally friendly way of travelling. Walk the kids to school, try out the bus, or see if you can get together with another family and take it in turns to collect the children from school or other activities. That’ll save you time and money as well as helping the planet. If a number of children in your street go to the same school, organise a walking bus – the kids all walk together with one parent at the front and another at the back – so parents get to take it in turns to take the children in.

Cycling is one of the quickest ways to travel especially in big cities. If your bike has been gathering dust in the garage for a few years then get a cycle shop to give it a service. It won’t cost much and will give you a safer and smoother ride. Most shops can also advise you on the right sort of safety gear – a helmet is a must – and will be able to help with child seats too.

The average person in the UK drives their car 5,433 miles per year, takes the bus for 207 miles per year and uses the train for 325 miles per year. If you’re willing and able to leave your car at home, public transport is a great green option. On average, it uses less than half as much fuel per passenger mile than a private car. And when all costs are taken into account (including car maintenance, road tax, insurance and so on) using public transport all the time can be cheaper than using a car.

Greener transport isn’t just about getting on your bike – your car can run more efficiently too. Cars are not going to go away and you may need them to get to work, but there are a few things you can do to lessen their impact on the environment. Turn off your engine if your car is stationary for two minutes or more. Don’t bother if you’re stationary for less than that, it can actually be more polluting turning your engine back on. Inflate your tyres to the correct pressure. This can save as much as 5% on your fuel bill. Remove unnecessarily heavy loads from the boot or roof of your car, they just make you use more fuel. Braking or accelerating sharply – as well as being dangerous – is bad for fuel consumption. Park in the shade if possible – the sun on a hot engine increases emissions causing a kind of smog which can trigger asthma and other breathing conditions.

If you’re looking for a new car, you could choose an alternative fuel vehicle, or look for fuel-efficient model that satisfies your needs. Generally, smaller cars use less fuel. The Environmental transport Association publishes a useful list each year. www.eta.co.uk The more fuel-efficient your car is, the less polluting it will be.

So, set yourself an achievable target this year. Is there one journey where you can use pubic transport instead of taking the car? Perhaps you can get your bike going again? Or, if its time to replace the car, look at greener models. Whichever you do, you will know you’re getting fitter, and helping the planet stay healthy too.

Antonia Chitty is an experienced and versatile communications specialist.
She has published articles in a range of consumer and trade titles, and runs
a PR agency for small and creative businesses. www.acpr.co.uk


Saving Energy by Antonia Chitty

If you look at your utilities bills with horror every month, you will be pleased to know there are lots of low cost ways to reduce your usage. Antonia Chitty shares some tips to help you cut costs and save the planet too.

Save £££, with no cost to you

There are many ways to save energy round the house that don’t cost you anything. Get the kids to make sure that they switch the TV off, rather than leaving it on standby, and the same goes for the computer too. Switch lights off in empty rooms too. To motivate younger children, have a sticker chart and award stickers each time they remember. You could make a cardboard crown, decorated with junk, and award it to the green king or queen, the child who has the most stickers at the end of the week.

Older kids can help save energy in the kitchen. If they get involved in cooking, explain that putting the lids on the pans when you’re cooking means that food heats more quickly, using less power. And only boil the water you actually need in the kettle, to save on energy.

One for mum or dad: check your thermostat to see how high the heating is set – 16-20 is the recommended temperature for children’s rooms. You can often turn the heating down by a degree or two without any problems, and make sure windows are closed if the heating is on. In the summer, hang your washing out to dry rather than using the tumble drier. The sun can help bleach out stains too and keep your whites white.

Getting the whole family involved in no-cost activities such as these can save you up to £40 per year.

Invest a little to save lots

Check the seal on your fridge door by inserting a piece of paper between it and the fridge door. If the paper moves, or falls out, it needs replacing. A faulty seal means that your fridge has to work harder to keep things cool, using more energy. Checking that the fridge is at the right temperature (2-3° C for a fridge & -15° C for a freezer) can save energy, as can making sure there are a few inches behind the fridge to allow air to circulate, and defrosting regularly. A dripping tap can waste a bathful of water a week. So turning off taps completely and fixing dripping taps can actually make a big difference.

Another way to save money is to check whether you’re using the cheapest energy supplier. You may be able to save money by switching: look at www.u-switch.co.uk for example, or opt for a green tariff instead. Most of the major companies now offer a green tariff and many are the same price as standard electricity. Companies such as Ecotricity, Unit[e] and Green Energy UK invest in building renewable energy projects so that they actively cut the amount of fossil fuels burned and reduce global warming.

There are several more things that you can do that only cost a little:

  • Low energy light bulbs cost less than £10 each, and can save you that in a year. Typically they last for 8000 hours of usage too. Energy-saving bulbs are ideal in areas where you have a light on for a long time.
  • If the kids have lots of battery powered toys, rechargeable batteries can save you money, as well as grief when a favourite toy expires at just the wrong moment.
  • Put tin foil behind radiators that are against outside walls to reflect heat back into the house and help conserve energy. This will allow you to turn down the thermostat a little further too. Use normal kitchen foil or buy special foil from a DIY store.
  • A shelf slightly above your radiator deflects heat out into the room, and can save you around £5-£10 per year. Avoid putting furniture in front of radiators too.

Don’t waste water

You can often safely reduce the amount of water released by each flush of the toilet – which saves money too if your water is metered. A product like Ecoflush regulates the amount of water used in each flush. Costing about £19, you can install it yourself – for more, see www.ecoflush.com. A toilet hippo will cut the volume of water flushed down the loo by a third – it’s especially useful in toilets installed before 1993, which have a larger cistern. Some water companies supply hippos free of charge. See www.hippo-the-watersaver.co.uk. If you lag the pipes that deliver your hot water, you should be able to turn your hot water temperature down a little. You can buy pre-formed foam tubing to wrap over your pipes. If they are in a tricky position, use double thickness lagging felt instead.

Follow these tips and you will save yourself a few pounds on each bill, and more importantly ensure that your children have a healthy planet for the future.

Why switch to washable menstrual pads? by Lisa Armstrong

There are several reasons, such as environmental health, personal health, and economy.
Each year in North America alone it is estimated that 20 billion pads and tampons end up in
our sewage system. Pads take an estimated 500 years to decompose and most contain
plastics and dioxin. Producing cloth pads uses fewer natural resources than producing
disposable menstrual products. Cloth pads also do not clog sewage treatment machinery
and use of them reduces solid waste in the land fills.

Cloth pads contain fewer chemicals.

For those who are chemically sensitive or prefer to avoid
the chemicals, cloth pads offer an alternative. Use of cloth pads made of organic unbleached
cotton further reduces personal and environmental chemical exposure.

Cloth pads are comfortable.

Many women say that cotton flannel makes the most comfortable and softest menstrual pad.

Cloth pads are economical.

The initial expense is greater, but considering that the cloth pads
may easily last 5 or more years, the long term cost is less.

Using cloth menstrual pads is a wonderful way to honor and respect yourself, your cycle,
and the Earth.

Many women buy them for their daughters as a healthy way to welcome them
into their womanhood.

Why use unbleached or organic cotton fabric? What is color grown cotton?

While switching to cloth menstrual pads reduces the amount of chemicals you are exposed
to, there are still chemicals used in the growing of cotton and production of cloth.
Unbleached cotton is cotton that has not gone through a chlorine or chlorine-compound
bleaching process. Instead hydrogen peroxide may be used for a ‘whitening’ process, and
the fabric produced appears more ‘off-white’ than the ‘whiter than white’ that menstrual
product manufacturers want us to believe means is sterile/clean. Organic cotton is cotton
that is grown using no chemicals. Not all cotton grows white or off-white;
some of it grows more green or brown. Color grown cotton is cotton that has been allowed
to remain its naturally grown color, without bleaching or dyeing it.

Are cloth pads difficult to care for?

You can either rinse your soiled pads immediately or store them in an air-tight plastic bag
until rinsing. Then soak them in cold water until you are ready to wash them, preferably
washing with a natural laundry soap. If there is staining, consider using an oxygen-based
bleach such as Oxy-Boost, and line drying in the sun. Sunlight is a natural disinfectant and
bleaching agent.

While it may take slightly longer to care for your washable cotton pads than to use
disposable products, you can choose to think of it as giving yourself a gift. A gift of slowing
down and living deliberately in a world already so full of moving fast and mindless modern
conveniences. A gift of recognizing that menstruation is normal and healthy and not
something to be embarrassed about or to pretend it doesn’t happen to you. A gift of taking
responsibility for your health and the environmental concerns that affect us all.

Lisa Armstrong runs Feminine Options
who seek to offer women a healthy and economic alternative to single-use menstrual products. They believe that in addition to the positive effect using washable menstrual pads has economically and environmentally, there can be a holistic positive effect on women as they learn to trust and reconnect with their bodies and look at conventionally-held menstrual taboos in another light.


Nappy Wrap Reviews

I have become a woman obsessed with nappy wraps. I try to engage other real nappy users in lengthy and dull conversations about them and the prefold vs all-in-one debate can keep me ranting for hours. The reason behind this is that my small boy, who used to wear the tiniest wraps on the tightest setting, is now a big chunky thumping lad who has just graduated to the heady world of medium size. So it was a slightly tearful farewell to hired wraps (how could he be that small once?), and a leap into the harsh reality of buying wraps.

Diaperaps and Proraps are pretty much the same thing, thick waterproof fabric with leg gussets. Although these never leaked with us until they got too small I found the gussets tricky to keep clean.

The Junior Joy wrap is plain white with leg gussets. It seemed a bit stiff at the top and I was reluctant to try it at first but now it is a definite contender for my favourite wrap. I like it because it fits high up on the waist and the gussets are deep and make a good holder for a prefold. It also wins the stickiest velcro competition.

Cotton Bottoms or Bummis are lovely because they come in colourful prints and they are virtually indestructible. They have a flap to tuck the prefold into and fold back tabs for fluff free washing. They work fine without gussets but the small size started to leak on my small when he weighed 12lbs.

Top of the wraps for me, and the hired wrap I really didn’t want to give back, is the Motherese whale print. It has a deep velcro strip, gussets and a flap at the front to hold the prefold in place. It is the lightest and softest in my collection, it never yet leaked and it didn’t complain when it accidentally got washed at 60 degrees with coloureds. Motherese saved me the trouble of ruining my own whites by making the wrap the muggy colour that I get whenever a white thing enters my house what a timesaver! Typically this is the most expensive wrap but I think it’s worth the extra.

New on the scene is the Nature Babies multisized poppered wrap. This is a very clever idea; one set of poppers shortens the wrap for smaller babies and 3 settings of poppers on the waist make it very flexible in terms of fit, which in turn makes it a good value wrap. It is very soft and comes in lovely bright patterns and colours. Admittedly I am a big velcro fan and was slightly biased against this wrap before I tried it. I did find the poppers fiddly, but it didn’t leak and the small boy didn’t object at all so I assume it was pretty comfortable. I also found it difficult to wash.

I have discovered that the more the merrier when it comes to wraps. I have a collection of about 15 now and I do a wash every other day. Having more means that I can keep the changing bag stocked up with nappies ready made up and I win races against disposable users in changing rooms. I like to use a variety of wraps to prevent rubbing my sons legs in the same place all the time. He lets me know quite audibly when he wants me to use a different type.

The medium size of wraps should last some time, so reluctantly I have to stop buying the things until he grows out of them.

Please feel free to add to the reviews in the comments section below.

copyright Lisa Cole www.lactivist.co.uk 2005


The Poo Fairies, Real Nappy Services by Lisa Cole

I clearly remember pinning down my youngest sister with my elbow while she screamed, wriggled and kicked away my carefully origamied terry nappy. She swears you can still see where I accidentally impaled her with safety pins to this day, and I didn’t do it on purpose no matter what she says. Some years on, real nappies don’t use pins and it’s almost impossible to scar someone for life with Velcro. These days you don’t even have to wash them yourself. In civilised 21st century Bristol there are people who swap dirty nappies for clean. I call them the poo fairies and they don’t cost as much as you would expect.

A prefold is a pad made from layers of cotton that folds into a waterproof outer cover, known as a wrap. Babies grow so quickly that you can hire the first two sizes of wraps and there are several types to fit different bums. Because the wraps fasten with Velcro you can bodge the nappy onto a wriggling baby and adjust it as many times as the baby will put up with. It’s simple to open up one side to check if it really was a poo or just the loudest fart ever. The wraps are the only thing you need to wash big poos go down the loo, or in the compost bin and the prefold goes into a bag in a bin that comes with the service. When I go out I just take a plastic bag to stick the dirties in until I get home.

Ordinary disposables they cost around 13p a nappy, the nappy service is 16p a nappy, 21p if you include wrap hire. The cost to the environment of ordinary disposables is well documented, according to the Women’s Environmental Network they have ‘over two and a half times the impact of service washed nappies’. Eco friendly disposables work out at about 20p a nappy but are either bleached or contain gel and are not 100% biodegradable, also none of them are made locally so you can add poo miles onto their ecological impact. Also, real nappies are supposed to be better for babies hips and may make it easier to potty train as the child is very aware of a soggy real nappy and wants to get out of it, instead of languishing in disposable dry gel oblivion.
Real nappies are not as time consuming as you might think. I have secretly raced other mothers changing their babies with disposables and won.

copyright Lisa Cole www.lactivist.co.uk 2005


Brief guide to real nappies by Lisa Cole

WRAPS are waterproof outer covers, they can be made of waterproof fabric (PUL), fleece or wool and fasten with poppers or velcro (Aplix)

WRAPS go over PREFOLDS which squares made of sewn up layers of cotton, old fashioned TERRY nappies or SHAPED nappies

SHAPED nappies vary in absorbency, some have a flap that you can fold for extra soaking up power where you need it depending on the sex of the child, some have hollow sections you can stuff with

BOOSTERS which are layers of terry covered in fleece

ALL IN ONES (AIO) are a shaped nappy and a wrap combined

If drying nappies is a consideration TERRYS dry the fastest, AIO the slowest.

The best wrap for your baby will depend on its shape and size, and the type of nappy you use. You may need a bigger size wrap for the larger shaped nappies. You get the most value out of medium sized wraps as they last the longest.

Gussets help to hold the nappy itself into the wrap, but can make the wrap more difficult to clean. Most can be washed at 40 degrees, some at 60 and you can scrub the seams with a nailbrush if they get too dirty.

Diaperaps and Proraps, quite thick and on the small size but tough.

Junior Joy, thin fabric, nice deep gusset

Motherese, thin fabric, wide fit, a lot of peoples favourite wrap. Popo wraps are much the same.

Cotton Bottoms or Bummis don’t have gussets but work well anyway, they also come in great prints. They are made of thick fabric and are on the small size.

Nature Babies multisized poppered wrap. This is a very clever idea; one set of poppers shortens the wrap for smaller babies and 3 settings of poppers on the waist make it very flexible in terms of fit, which in turn makes it a good value wrap. It is very soft and comes in lovely bright patterns and colours. Admittedly I am a big velcro fan and was slightly biased against this wrap before I tried it. I did find the poppers fiddly, but it didn’t leak and the small boy didn’t object at all so I assume it was pretty comfortable. I also found it difficult to wash.

I have discovered that the more the merrier when it comes to wraps. I have a collection of about 15 now and I do a wash every other day. Having more means that I can keep the changing bag stocked up with nappies ready made up and I win races against disposable users in changing rooms. I like to use a variety of wraps to prevent rubbing my sons legs in the same place all the time. He lets me know quite audibly when he wants me to use a different type.

copyright Lisa Cole www.lactivist.co.uk 2005

Eco-parenting by Arabella Greatorex

Arabella Greatorex, owner of The Natural Nursery, reports on the rapidly rising demand for natural, environmentally friendly and ethically sound parenting products and highlights some of the concerns that have fuelled these demands.

Organic Food

There has been much media debate around the promotion of heavily processed foods to children, part of a long standing concern about the quality of food on offer in the UK. While some say the jury is still out on issues such as pesticide residues in fruit and vegetables, it is worth noting that only 30 additives are allowed in organic food, compared to over 300 in non-organic. Specifically, organic food bans the use of tartrazine (linked to hyperactivity in children) and GM ingredients.

The Soil Association reports that sales in organic food grew by 10% last year overall and purchases from farm shops and box schemes by a whopping 16%. This means that over 75% of households bought some organic food during 2004.

Organic baby and toddler foods now account for nearly half of total baby foods in the UK, with its market share growing rapidly, highlighting the level of concern felt by parents, and is a trend that looks set to continue.

Cloth Nappies

Modern cloth nappies bear no resemblance to the old-fashioned terry squares you probably wore as a child. They are cheaper and more hygienic to use than their disposable counterparts and parents are fast cottoning on to this. Ten years ago, only 2% of parents used cloth nappies; that figure has now grown to over 15% and is rising steadily.

Despite this growth in cloth nappy use, Bristol City Council still spends around £500,000 each year dealing with disposable nappies. Conventional disposable nappies can contain up to 200 chemicals and some estimates say they will take over 200 years to decompose.

The alternative is to use cloth nappies, which are now available in a wide range of shapes and sizes and can be just as easy to use as disposables. You can choose from so soft organic terry or a natural eco-look or funky fleece prints or even retro patterns to really make a statement. They can be flat, shaped or stuffed, depending upon your child’s personal needs and you will find other ‘clothies’ are more than happy to help you decide which nappy is right for you.

They could help you save money as well; the Women’s Environmental Network estimate that savings will be around £500 for the first child and more for subsequent children, even taking into account the cost of home laundering.

Chemical Free Toiletries

Your skin will absorb around 60% of products applied to it and Green People estimates that the average woman will absorb about 2kg of chemicals through toiletries and cosmetics over one year, up to 75,000 different chemicals! We all know how sensitive a baby’s skin is and rates of eczema are rising fast with almost a third of babies now suffering from it.

Many people believe that the chemicals in the lotions and potions that we use are to blame. Even some so called ‘natural’ products contain a range of chemicals that are believed to cause or exacerbate skin conditions or be carcinogenic, even if they are originally plant derived. Worryingly, a product needs to contain only 1% natural ingredients to be legally labelled ‘natural’.

Natural, organic and chemical free toiletries are no longer the preserve of the health food shop but are widely available on the high street or from specialist internet companies. The Soil Association estimate that there will be a 20% increase in the number of licensed organic manufacturers this year, reflecting the huge surge in demand, especially amongst families with young children.

Fair trade

When you are buying clothes or toys for your baby, international trade may seem like a remote issue but by choosing carefully, you could make all the difference to someone else’s life. Farmers in the developing world are ill-equipped to cope with dramatic changes in commodity prices, which are caused by factors outside the control of the individuals most concerned.

Parents are being offered an increasing range of fairly or ethically traded products, including clothes, shoes, toys, toiletries and nappies. Sales of ‘Fairtrade’ marked goods are now well over £100m per year in the UK alone, up 46% on last year and we eat a third of a million fair trade bananas every DAY!

The growth in organic cotton

Most people assume that as cotton is a natural product, it is produced naturally, unfortunately, this is not the case. Around 150 grams of hazardous chemical pesticides will be used to grow enough cotton to make one t-shirt. The cotton farming industry accounts for about 1/4 of the world’s insecticide use as well as huge amounts of fertilisers that can end up in the water system and food chain.

The World Health Organisation estimates that 20,000 people die every year in developing countries as a result of poisoning from pesticides used on non-organic cotton. Worryingly, much of the world’s cotton production comes from genetically modified crops: over 2/3rds of China’s cotton crop is GM.

Luckily, more and more organic textiles are now available and there has been an 80% increase in the worldwide production of organic cotton in the last 2 years, with sales in the UK alone now worth over £20m from almost zero a couple of years ago. You can now buy organic clothes, bedding, towels, sheepskins and nappies from a range of suppliers – even good old Marks and Spencer sell a range of organic cotton yoga clothes.

Katharine Hamnett, fashion designer, says: “This is part of a rapidly growing trend reflecting increasing consumer awareness and concern over global issues to do with the impact of pesticides, herbicides, dioxins and toxic chemicals used in textiles, on the environment and human heath. The good news is that this shows people are actually looking for positive alternatives.”

And for the daddies

The Ecologist Magazine recently studied the contents of a can of shaving gel and found it to contain ‘several skin irritants, four potential carcinogens, three central nervous system poisons and two reproductive toxins’ – and all this before breakfast!

Arabella Greatorex is the owner of www.naturalnursery.co.uk, an online store selling organic and fairly traded products for families including organic clothing and nappies, fairly traded toys and natural toiletries.


Recycling Facts by Arabella Greatorex

These make quite alarming reading – if we want to have any kind of planet to pass on to our children and grandchildren, perhaps we need to be a little more aware of our actions.

No one has to save the planet single-handedly but if we each took a few small steps, we can achieve great things together.

  • We get through nearly 3 billion disposable nappies each year in the UK alone and around 90% of these end up on landfill sites. Disposable nappies take 500 years to decompose.
  • Over 20,000 tonnes of batteries are sent to landfill site in the UK each year. It takes 50 times more energy to make a battery than it gives during its life.
  • Each day, we produce enough rubbish to fill Trafalgar Square to the height of Nelson’s Column.
  • Each year, one person gets through 90 drink cans, 70 food cans, 107 bottles and jars and 45kg of plastic.
  • 55 million 2-litre plastic bottles are thrown away in Bristol each year.
  • The UK uses about 12 billion cans each year – that’s enough to stretch to the moon and back!
  • On average each person in England and Wales produces nearly 500kg of household waste a year.
  • 7 million trees are cut down every year just to make disposable nappies.
  • The average British family throws away 6 trees worth of paper in their household bin a year.
  • Every tonne of paper recycled saves 17 trees.
  • 25% of household waste is packaging and we throw £36 million worth of aluminium into landfill sites.
  • Five out of six glass bottles are thrown away.

Arabella Greatorex is the owner of www.naturalnursery.co.uk, an online store selling organic and fairly traded products for families including organic clothing and nappies, fairly traded toys and natural toiletries.


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