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Bristol Bus Driver Throws Breastfeeding Mum Off Bus for Indecent Exposure

http://www.thisisbristol.co.uk/homepage/Bristol-mother-thrown-bus-breast-feeding/article-1866200-detail/article.html

Thrown off: Bristol mother ordered off bus for breast-feeding her baby

Thursday, February 25, 2010,

This young mum was thrown off a Bristol First bus – for breast-feeding her baby. The driver stopped the bus and told her to stop feeding her six-week-old daughter or get off. And when she refused he threatened to call the police. Amy Wootten, of Stockwood, was on her way home from the city centre on Tuesday when she was forced off the 54 bus in the rain. She was ordered off the bus in Wells Road and took an £8 taxi for the rest of her journey home. The 25-year-old said the driver told her a complaint had been made about her “indecent exposure”. Miss Wootten was feeding Emily at about 4.30pm on a packed bus when the driver threatened to call the police if she did not do as he asked.

She said: “The bus driver told me someone had said I was indecently exposing myself and said stop or get off my bus. “It was like he was suggesting I was doing horrendous things. But I was being quite discreet about it. “I couldn’t believe it. I explained that I was only feeding my baby and not exposing myself and the driver said ‘can you get off my bus please’. “We were told to get off the bus, in the rain, at a stop without a shelter and I was still a 20-minute bus ride away and couldn’t have walked home. I felt completely and utterly humiliated, because it was a packed bus.” The learning support assistant said no one raised concerns with her about the breast-feeding and the first she knew that anyone was concerned was when the driver spoke to her.

Miss Wootten said: “If I hadn’t fed her, Emily would have screamed and we would probably have had more complaints from people on the bus. “I was showing a tiny bit of breast, but is it any different to showing your arm or your foot? “I was absolutely horrified but more cross for my baby girl.”

Miss Wootten said she has fed Emily on buses before and although another passenger had made a comment there had not been such a reaction from the driver. She relies on bus travel because she cannot drive. Women are encouraged to breast-feed by the NHS because it has protective effects on them and their children. There is an initiative in Bristol to encourage women to breast-feed and restaurants, cafes and other public places have signed up to show they welcome breast-feeding mums. Bristol was also the first city in the country to complete one of the stages for the Unicef Baby Friendly award. The breast-feeding development manager for NHS Bristol, Nicki Symes, said: “There are about 200 venues around the city that welcome breast-feeding. “We have not approached transport providers as part of the scheme but it is something we will need to do. “I feel very sorry for this mother, as we support a woman’s right to breast-feed in public. “It is really disappointing that this has happened and I would be happy to speak to the bus company about their policy.”

Miss Wootten complained to First yesterday and the company apologised for the incident and sent her flowers and gift vouchers. She said: “I would like them to have a bit of tact and compassion. “I have really struggled breast-feeding Emily and had so many problems but was determined to do the right thing for her. “It just makes you really reluctant to feed in public. “Emily is my first baby and it is only in the last two weeks I have had the confidence to feed her in public rather than sitting in a feeding room.”

First spokeswoman Karen Baxter said drivers would be given guidance to prevent similar incidents happening. She said: “We are aware of the incident that occurred on Tuesday evening and have already expressed our sincere apologies to Miss Wootten for the distress caused as a result of it. “We have launched an investigation into exactly what happened. “As a company we accept that breast-feeding mothers have the right to feed their children when they are hungry, and understand that from time to time it may be necessary to do this while travelling on the bus. “We have already taken steps to ensure that this message is communicated to all our staff, so that similar issues do not arise in future.”

11 comments to Bristol Bus Driver Throws Breastfeeding Mum Off Bus for Indecent Exposure

  • Sam

    that poor girl! id have told the driver to call the police! lol ive fed babies on the bus before and liek she said its much better than annoying everyone with a screaming baby!!!

    i hope they inform their drivers that its illegal to stop a woman breastfeeding in public!

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  • How awful for her! How shameful of the other passengers fir not defending her right to breastfeed!!!

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  • olliesmum

    Poor girl. Bullied for being an attentive and caring parent.
    (see the comments section below the article to hear my other thoughts )

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  • Robert Brueford

    I think the members of this site should know the truth and the fact she made it all up. cctv has been viewed from start to finish and she was seen getting off the vehicle under her own steam and without any problems at all.

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  • Does anyone know of any other proof that it was made up other than the Bristol Evening Post?

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  • Rob

    Fao Admin, the evening post were notified by First Bus after the cctv was veiwed and the women in question actually admitted to making it up.

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  • Thanks Rob, do you have a link to that?

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  • mom

    What the heck is wrong with people? If your child is hungry you feed them. Six weeks old, the baby isn’t chomping a mcdonald’s hamburger. If she chooses breast milk, you don’t them give them formula. Men have made “breasts” a naughty thing. Breasts are not naughty, they are there for a purpose–to feed newborns. Period. Sometimes men really get on my nerves. AND then to have the busdriver throw her off in the rain with the baby. OMG.

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  • mom

    Don’t ask a woman to feed the baby in a bathroom either, it is unsanitary. Would any of you take your lunch in the bathroom to eat? I would think not. I am disgusted by this situation. ugh.

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  • mom

    If I had witnessed that, I would have stood between the bus driver and the mom/infant so the driver couldn’t get to her. He would have to go through me.

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