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Ask Aunty Lactivist – Preschool promoting bottle feeding

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Dear Aunty Lactivist
I took my 4 yr old to preschool today, to be met my a row of dolls all waiting to be washed, talcumed, and bottle fed! There was a row of about 6 bottles all with milk in and the children were forcing the teats into the dolls faces to make the milk pour out all over them! I honestly didn’t know what to think or say, but actually felt quite cross!
At home we talked about the activity and I explained he didn’t have bottles when he was a baby, and that he had mummy milk.
Which then led into a deep conversation about why my body made milk for babies, and how his sister had the milk too and that he doesnt have milk anymore but still loves cuddles.
I just wondered if anyone else has seen this kind of activity happen and if and how they said anything. I dont want to upset people but more inform them on how they could structure activities like this better, setting a good example for our children, who may well be parents themselves one day.
V

5 comments to Ask Aunty Lactivist – Preschool promoting bottle feeding

  • That is really sad, how approachable are the people who run the preschool? You could be heavy handed and tell them that they are illegally promoting formula (which is probably how I would badly handle it) but I am sure there are better ways. Hopefully someone more tactful will have an idea or two.

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  • Jessica

    When the children at my daughter’s preschool were learning about babies, the preschool got a few parents with babies to come in. One gave the baby a bath while the children watched, one gave the baby a meal of solid food, and I was asked to come in to show the baby breastfeeding. The staff talked to the children about what babies eat, and how the mother’s breasts make the milk which is all a little baby needs to eat, and some of the children talked about seeing other babies they knew brestfeeding. It was great – the teacher answered questions about formula and bottle feeding honestly and tactfully but presented breastfeeding as the normal way to feed a baby. It probably helped that one of the memebers of staff was a breastfeeding counsellor!

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  • melanie allerton

    Hi I was bottlefed, as were my 2 sisters. I always Bottlefed my dolls…Yet I have solely breastfed my 5 children.
    My son now 13 wanted to wear ballet skirts when he was 3, he doesn’t anymore ;)
    Sometimes I think we can look too much into things, but maybe having a day like the above mentioned would be a good idea, or just a nice story about how babies grow.
    Maybe you could suggest getting some of the bottle stickers that say 100% mummys milk for the bottles. You can’t say they are promoting formula, as lots of mummies pump and bottle feed their children too.
    Your influence is what’s important :)

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  • Nikki

    Not only influence, but they should not be promoting formula…..also early years should be promoting Breastfeeding as the norm, having pictures and books depicting breastfeeding and birth…..they need to look at EYFS me thinks ;-)

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